Thursday, 28 May 2026

Ranveer Singh banned by Bollywood?


In a disturbing turn of events, Ranveer Singh was banned in  Bollywood by an obscure organisation called FWICE. 

That organisation is there to protect the interests of the cine employees in Bollywood  - why did they get into an issue between a Producer and an Actor.  They claim that lively hoods of 600 employees were at stake due to non-starting of Don 3 and so they were involved.  By the same logic - lively hoods of 600 different employees would be at stake due to non starting of Ranveer Singh's Pralay! So, how does the logic hold good?

Secondly - This so called organisation never spoke even once when so many heroines were harassed or were subjected to casting couches.  They not once took up the case of any struggling actor (SSR for example) !! So, all of a sudden why attack Ranveer! 

Thirdly - In all their history FWICE issued ban on only 2 little known actors/singers - Diljit Dosannah and Mika Singh for collaborating with Pakistanis in music/films. How can you compare that with a contractual issue between an actor and a Producer.  An organisation that did not issue a ban on any actor since it was formed suddenly issued a ban against a  top actor!! doesnt sound right!

Fourthly - why should they get into this dispute and issue a notice to an actor? There is an actors association for that headed by Poonam dhillon!

All this points to simple dada giri - both on part of Farhan Akhtar and FWICE.  And they are saying it so openly!! By saying it is not a ban but a Non cooperation Directive - wont change the on ground situation. Both would literally mean the same.

This action smacks more of jealousy, power lust and hunger for publicity.

Modi ji should quietly step in and teach a lesson to FWICE and the general public should teach a lesson to Farhan Akhtar by not watching his movies!

Only then can this kind of intimidation & dada giri can stop!  Else this has a danger of being the new normal!

My 6th visit to Tirumala Tirupati

I started my blog in 2012 after a visit to Tirupati for the second time.  That detailed post can be accessed here

Tirumala Temple details

I am sending a short update as I visited after a long time and re-started my blog. I will be visiting again soon and at that time I will give a very detailed update. Watch this space after 2 months. 

Quick update now-

TTD started entry checks at the foot of the hill. All vehicles are stopped at the foot of the hill.  Devotees have to walk past physical security checks where they are frisked thoroughly.  Understand it is to stop devotees from  bringing alcohol. cigarettes, ganja, gutka and the like.  There is zero tolerance here. Even the vehicles are thoroughly checked after the passengers get down.

One concession here is that - senior citizens do not have to get down.

If you are carrying luggage, then the luggage is also scanned like in airports.

Having gone through these checks - I found Tirumala to be a far more peaceful and pleasant place being devoid off alcohol and all sorts of substances (I drink myself - still the no drinks policy was good on the hill top).

Tirumala is visibly cleaner and better organised which is a job well done by TTD. 

Inside the temple, as we entered the sanctum sanctorum there was so much of pushing & pulling by the over enthusiastic temple volunteers who were pushing people who were going back also.  It's like they have to push & pull everyone no matter whether they are moving on their own or not - when i asked some woman why she was pushing me when i was going back on my own - she said 'Anna (elder brother) Move on Anna'. I just moved on but that is some sort of crazy briefing they got from the administrations :-)

So all devotees - senior citizens especially - maintain your eye contact with the deity to maximise your satisfaction level - no matter how the volunteers push and pull you. Dont engage with them - while going in, look straight forward and when on the way out of sanctorum - turn around, maintain your eye contact and walk backward. You wont fall walking backwards as there will be enough volunteers pulling you back :-). I am specifically saying this as I saw a few people walking out from the sanctorum with their backs to the Lord!

That's all for now folks! Wait for my complete detailed description of the place and facilities as of 2026 in a couple of months. Happy reading

Thursday, 27 July 2023

Women's safety and Flying Camera phones!!!

 A Wonderful post copied from Digital Messiah

 Have you heard of Flying camera Phones?  Chances are that many of you did not!

Smart phone cameras are really getting smarter with every passing model.  Resolutions have been bumped up to 300 MP as on date with telescopic and digital zooms hovering around 10x and 100x respectively.  

While the resolution is not much of a problem from the safety point of view, the ever increasing zoom levels are a definite cause of concern.  You never really know who is watching you from far away and  worse, you never know who is recording you with a high end camera phone.  So many videos leaked online are a testament to this.  How are they getting linked online? Well that is the subject of another post.  The main issue right now is that women's safety is under serious threat from this high zoom level.

While that issue is still not even flagged as a threat, let alone be addressed, companies are planning to introduce flying cameras that will take off from your mobile phones!!! Just like a mini drone.  Till now, the maximum innovation in the camera mechanism (not to be confused with the resolution or zoom level) was that we had cameras that pop up from the body and swivel 360 degrees.  In comparison, this new tech of flying cameras is like from another planet!!!! The complete camera setup will take off much like a quadcopter and fly for as long as the battery permits.  See pics below


    Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@jonlampel?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Jonathan Lampel</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/L9wrEGJjRdo?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a>

           Flying Mobile cameras - Artist's impressions              Conventional Quadcopter 
              (Single turbine)                     (Quad turbine)           (Photo by Jonathan Lampel)    
        
So, for all practical purposes a mini drone will take off from your mobile which you can control from your mobile itself.  

See its wonderful pros:-
1.  You don't have to carry a big drone with you,
2.  There is no separate controller,
3.   Expected to be vastly cheaper than a high end mobile + conventional drone (as user expected to buy a smart phone for his personal needs anyway),
4.    Users may become more creative with their videos with aerial shots.

On the cons front:-
1.   Conventional drone is a costly equipment registered to a licensed operator which makes each drone traceable.  This provides the security that may become absent in flying cameras from mobiles as tying a camera to a mobile may be practically impossible in present business model (though technologically possible).  In addition, camera modules may be available as spares for these mobiles and there is no way, one can keep track of spares.  The pre-owned segment where records are not kept is also a major problem here.
2. These flying cams are extremely detrimental to women's security as these can keep flying anywhere from wash rooms ventilators to bed rooms windows to stair cases for up-skirt views etc without fear of persecution. The list is endless.  Sometimes, we may be able to take a swipe at the flying camera and bring it down but it would have transmitted its images anyway.  Men will risk losing a replaceable camera module for the footage of women they can get for fun/blackmail or to create a scandal. 
3. These flying cameras are primarily being made for users to get aerial shots and we can assume they will go minimum 20-30 metres into the air.  If that is taken as the range, anyone can intrude into the private spaces of anyone within that range in an apartment block, hotel or school etc.

As this is a work in progress, Women must make a strong case for themselves against this needless invention, with emphasis on the following:-

Option 1
1.    These cameras must not be made available commercially as they are not for the good of anyone.  
2.    If required the R&D may be shelfed at this point itself.

Option 2 - In case market considerations overtake concerns on Women's safety
1.    All the flying camera modules must be tied to the IMEI number of the phone. 
2.    Mobile phones to come with 3-4 spare camera modules - all tied to the IMEI number.  No further spares to be provided.
3.    Limit the maximum range of operation to 5 metres which is good enough for over head shots, which is the main stated purpose of these devices.
4.    Pursue stringent  legal safe guards to deter people from using them in apartment complexes, offices , malls etc.
5.    Make them prohibitively expensive so that only a few people have them, which makes identification also easier.
6.    These should be tagged in the pre-owned market also i.e from the birth to death of the phone, so that the exact ownership details of the flying camera are always available.
7.   And any other measure that will enhance the safety of Women.

To all the Women out there - It's an uphill and no easy task but this is one battle that you need to fight because this technology will cause mayhem in your lives if left unchecked!!!

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Sunday, 3 February 2019

mobile phones

I bought a Nokia windows phone for my wife three years back for valentine's day at rupees 12000($185).  I wanted to change it for this valentines so went to the mobile shops for an exchange offer.  Most of the shops refused to take it back. One shop offered me rupees 400($6) and another rupees 800($12) against purchase of a new phone costing rupees 19500 ($300).

Then i have realised that a fully working phone bought for 12000rs has become next to worthless in 3 years.

Nokia
Nokia 550
It also struck me how these phones are silently eating into our budgets.  In the last 5 years i changed 4 phones and my wife & teenaged daughter 2 each.  That is 8 phones in all.  Considering each costs about 13k rupees ($200) on the lower side that is more than a lakh rupees ($1600) in five years or about 20k per year.  This sum multiplies 4-5 times if high end phones are used by the family.

Imagine an Iphone which retailed for 35k 3-4 years back is worthless now as no one wants it.

As per open source reports, our country had imports of more than twice our population in the last 6-8 years with majority of the sales going to chinese XIAOMI or HUAWEI or SAMSUNG or other foreign manufacturers.  So we are not only denting our pockets but also filling the coffers of foreign telecom companies.  We have far more phones than there are toilets in the country!!!

And  - what is happening to all the e-waste we are generating?? Where is it getting dumped??  Also a lot of rare earth metals are being used up to manufacture these new smart phones, the excavation of which is reported to be causing significant ecological damage.

This is where the government can consider stepping in and introducing some regulation both to safe guard us from our own spending and the environmental damage this buying spree is doing.  This is one regulation which needs to be implemented in current times than several other archaic ones in force.

But can it be done??  
#mobiles
#china
#xiaomi
#huawei
#india
#imports
#family
#i-phone
 

Thursday, 31 January 2019

Farmers Water drought and Government aid

The central government has been kind enough to grant about 4700 crores to Maharashtra in India as drought relief.  The state had asked for about 7200 crores.  As aid given to farmers is presumed to cover bare neccessities only, the amount can be safely doubled if we have to ensure a reasonable dignity of living which may come to about 15k crores.

Maharashtra has about 11 million hectares under sugar cane cultivation which is extremely water intensive and has produced about 8 million tonnes of sugar per year.

How did we reach these high production figures.  Sugar cane is a good crop for farmers as it is quite weather proof and the buyers(mill owners) are assured, that too at government controlled prices.  This led to further improvements in agriculture and the seeds which led to bumper harvests which exceeded the demand and  there were no takers for the surplus. Consequently farmers went unpaid and led to hardship!!!

To put this in perspective we need to look at sugar statistics.   A tonne of sugar fetches about 15k for a farmer so the 8 million produced would fetch about 12,000 crores for the farmer.  As it seems that is less than what the farmer needs to be paid for just a reasonable level of dignity in living.

Then what is the point in this high production figures.  They are sucking up all our water resources and not even giving any ROI (return on investment) to our farmers.  Won't it be saner to import sugar (like advanced nations) and let our farmers grow more sustainable agriculture like paddy, vegetables etc. This not only saves our water but also ensures that a farmer never starves as even in the worst condition he can live off his own produce.  The importance of agriculture cannot be more emphasized. Of course, the people at the present sugar factories also need to be taken care of so that their lives are not affected.

Two of the largest importers in the world at No 1 and No 3 are China and United States respectively.

Why they are not growing their own??? Think of it!!

Disclaimer - the Statistics quoted by me may not be accurate - but accurate statistics about sugar cane are not my point - My point is - How do we save water for ourselves and our future generations!!

Tuesday, 29 January 2019

Farmers and Water Drought

 Our neighbour hood sage predicted two things in 1950:-

1. India and China would be two new super powers in the next century and thereafter India will be the only super power.
2.  Water will be costlier than petrol.

Needless to say everyone laughed - Me too included, when I heard of it in 1980.  India as a super power was unimaginable in 1980.  All that changed with the introduction of the computers to India on a large scale by Shri Rajiv Gandhi.  Though the first computer came to india in the 1950's, the scale at which Shri Rajiv Gandhi pushed computers on the common man revolutionised India to a point, where it is now on the cusp of being a super power. So the prophecy may come true after all!!! 

But our post is not about this prophecy.  It is about the worrying prospect of the second prophecy coming true.

In some ways we have already reached there, with a litre of premium drinking water costing about $7 or Rs 420 in India.   Even the cheapest drinking water costs about Rs 15 for one litre bottle.  There are millions of households utilising water cans of 20 litres selling for about 40-100 rupees each.  Apart from this, there is a huge marketing chain of water purifiers, replacement filters and their maintenance contracts etc.  So water vertical is in itself a huge business driving the water shortage.

In addition, there is the textile industry, leather industry and water intensive crops such as sugar cane etc.

According to one study, 30 billion litres of water is used annually by the leather industry. Considering that an average person requires just 30 litres of water in a day, this is a huge huge requirement of the industry. 

In the textile industry, every kilogram of textile produced uses about 100 litres of water.  India consistently produced 1300 million tonnes of cloth every year in recent times.  You can imagine the water requirement.

Apart from the problem of consuming drinking water, this water gets contaminated with pollutants and chemicals and if improperly disposed would lead to contamination of remaining water also.

In addition there are water intensive crops like sugar cane which bleed an area dry of its water.  A farmer may get about 5 lakhs per acre from the sugar cane but this has to be seen against the millions of litres of ground water it consumes for the same.  Indian exports alone are between 3-5 million tonnes and therefore the water utilised could be again huge.

And we are one of the top exporters of textiles, leather goods and sugar cane!!!!  Does that ring a bell?
THINK ABOUT IT
#India
#water 
#water shortage
#leather
#textiles
#sugar cane
#computers
#Rajiv Gandhi





Wednesday, 23 January 2019

Tirumala Tirupati venkateswara swamy darshan

I am reposting an old post of mine as a tribute to Lord Venkateswara in the year 2019 and with a view to be of some assistance to his devotees.

This was my third visit to Tirupati. The first was after my marriage where we hardly had any time to know what was happening around us. The second was for the mundan ceremony of my first child and that too passed away with little time to understand the setting. This third visit of mine for the mundan ceremony of my second child was far more enlightening. To begin with, I was amazed by the scale and grandeur of the entrance to the abode.
It was one of the grandest entrances that I have seen and was truly spectacular. As we progressed on our journey to Tirumala, I was struck by the roads which were so neat and tidy and, to top it all, there were no potholes at all. The concerned department must be working very hard to ensure this.
I also for the first time in my life saw the sign “No Open Urination - Fine Rs. 25”. It was mind boggling to see such a sign in our country where this practice is so prevalent. At least the major cities could take a cue from this.
On reaching our destination I was fascinated by the use of technology to root out corruption. At the local TTD counter in our city I booked a room online. The clerk took my photo using a webcam and my fingerprint using a scanner. When I reached Tirumala, my details were already in the system and after verification my room was allotted.
Such a wonderful system obviously leaves very little scope for middlemen, agents or touts in room allotment. Though not everything can be perfect, the effort was clearly visible.

Then there was the mundan ceremony where the waiting time in the free Kalyanakatta was upwards of six hours. The temple administration had opened a few more Kalyanakattas which charged a nominal fee of Rs. 10. We managed the ceremony in about half an hour.
Thereafter we went for darshan. It was heartening to see that the administration had commenced a separate darshan for children below one year of age along with their parents called Supadham Darshan. Incidentally, Supadham Darshan is also available for Defence personnel, TTD employees, newlyweds and NRIs.
Inside the queue there was a fair amount of pushing and pulling, but once we entered the temple the rush became overwhelming. The day I went I realised how stampedes take place during religious processions. People who had waited for seven to ten hours could not wait another few minutes for peaceful darshan.
The sight of the Lord was divine and I was mesmerised for the few seconds that I could stand before Him.
Thereafter I was gently moved aside by a temple usher and I came out looking for the Hundi. Outside I saw the huge signs reading “Srivari Hundi” and offered my prayers there. After collecting the prasadam and laddus, I was impressed by another thoughtful arrangement.
Every laddu counter displayed the official weight of the laddu and digital weighing machines had been installed outside each counter so that devotees could verify the weight if required. This again reflected an efficient use of technology and transparency.
The collection of the laddus technically marked the completion of our sojourn and we returned to our room after dinner. Meals are not available in many of the guest houses and one often has to rely on nearby restaurants which are usually crowded though reasonably priced.
The temple also serves free meals to thousands of devotees every day through Annadanam. I also noticed refreshments being distributed free of cost to devotees standing in the queue.
All in all, I returned from this trip as a happy man. Whatever little misconceptions I had about malpractices in Tirupati management were reasonably dispelled by what I observed during this visit. I certainly look forward to my next trip.

Monday, 21 January 2019

My car has electrically adjustable outer rear view mirrors - or ORVM's as they call them.  My car cleaner regularly tilts them anyway he wishes when he cleans the car mirrors.  Today while at a traffic signal i realised that my mirrors were awry and adjusted my left one first and then my right. as soon as i adjusted my right a beam of white light hit my eys through the ORVM.  On a second look i realised that it was a 2 wheeler fitted with a HiD light.

The light was so bright and 'so in my eyes' that i could not look at that side at all. Then i remembered my old post about HiD lights. Nothing has changed and they still continue to be a menace on the streets.  It is high time the transport ministry did something about it!!!!

my old post
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I recently read that a high end car to be launched on the Indian roads is going to have Laser assisted lighting.  I immediately wondered about the plight of the poor pedestrians on the road who may get fried by these lasers!!!

Some people looked at me condescendingly and explained that its a new form of technology - that the lasers by themselves dont light up the road - they light up a gas and the illuminated gas lights up the road - its too complex for laymen like me to understand etc etc.

Well I may not understand all that high end tech but even as  a layman, i know that most of our cars are equipped to be fitted only with the ubiquitos yellow bulb. For some time even halogen bulbs were considered illegal (I think they still are). Then came the fully illegal HID kits and later OEM fitted HID lights on high end cars.  As if all that was not enough, someone designed these high tech laser lights.

Lasers when misalligned can cause dangers to people in front of them but as Laser lights are still too far away to be available freely on the streets, let us examine the immediate danger i.e HID lights.

HID stands for High intensity discharge and these bulbs are now being installed as a standard fit on some luxury cars and as an after market fitment for many other cars.  The advantages are as follows:-
1.  They draw lower power
2.  They last a longer time
3.   Higher illumination and resultant higher range
4.   Cool white glow with bluish tinge
5.   Better night time visibility - so more safer

But look at the disadvantages:-
1. Use inert gas so they place a strain on environment
2. May leak into sorrounding environment or into the car
3. Misalligned HID after market kits may not illuminate roads properly and may cause accidents
4.Blue light may cause problem in foggy/low visibility conditions
5.   Excessive heating up due to poor heat dissipation

but the more important ones are :-
5. HID LIGHTS GIVE OUT A BLINDING WHITE LIGHT THAT REFLECTS VERY BADLY IN THE REAR VIEW MIRROR OF THE VEHICLE IN FRONT OF YOU
6. THEY TOTALLY BLIND THE PEDESTRIAN TRAFFIC IN FRONT OF YOU ESPECIALLY IF THE BULBS ARE MISALLIGNED
7. THEY SUBSTANTIALLY BLIND THE TRAFFIC FROM THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION

as you can see, the disadvantages weigh far in excess of the advantages.  Its time companies rethink on OEM fitment of HID lamps & Laser lamps.  

They could concentrate on LED lighting as they are more cost effective, cooler (as all heat is used up to light up only) and safer!!!

Lastly - if you still have a compulsive urge to install HID kit for your car then -
1. do not install bi-xenon kits where there is a HID lamp for both low and high beams. HID on high beam can be very disconcerting and blinding for traffic in opposite direction and may cause accidents which could involve you also
2. Install HID for low beam only
3. For high beam, use conventional yellow bulb (preferable) or halogen

Happy driving to you and those in your opposite direction!!!



Sunday, 20 January 2019

Tryst with an Air India staffer and need for National character building

It was my transit flight from Vizag to Mumbai by Air India flight. 
'Air India' - you may be exclaiming😄😄  but all said and done I find that Air India flights have maximum leg room for the common people like me in economy class (except the Neo's ofcourse which in my opinion are most passenger unfriendly aircraft - but that is another topic altogether).

The flight arrival was before time as was also indicated by the flightaware software on my phone and boarding was also announced before time. As usual we were all in a queue to board and the person at the boarding gate was checking our plane tickets & passes and curtly counting numbers to his colleague with not even a faint acknowledgement of the passengers. There were two foreigners in front of me - with quite unkempt hair baggy clothes et al - after checking their boarding passes the Air India staffer gave them the sweetest of smiles and also said a 'thank you'. Next was me and he got into his curt routine again. After my turn i looked back to see if he wished anyone else amongst us Indians. There were none that i could see.

So the sweet smiles and greetings were only for the foreigners.  But this post is not to bicker over the attitude of that Air India staffer. That is for Air India to realise and brief their staff accordingly if this post reaches them ever.  But the bigger point is - do we as Indians don't respect ourselves? Can you imagine any country where Indians are greeted n treated better than their own country men? I am sure you would have rarely seen anything like that(if at all). But i have seen the reverse where foreigners are feted and Indians looked down upon umpteen number of times in India. Why does that happen? What could be a driving force for such behaviour? Are we still in awe of the 'white foreigner?' 

I can still understand a hotel steward trying to please a foreigner as
they generally are better tippers but in an airline or a bus or hotel room etc, the preferential treatment is disgusting and unacceptable like in this present case as all flyers pay equally depending on when they buy the ticket.

So is this hard wired into us that the staffer was extra nice to only foreigners? Someone may say "Athithi Devo Bhava' (roughly means guests are like Gods) but for Air India all of us are 'Athithis' only.  So are we lesser Gods?

Respecting your own countrymen is part of Nation building and all great Nations respect their citizens first.  Can you think of Staffers in US of A giving preferential treatment to Indians over Americans??   You can safely discount that to be impossible!!!
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So it is time to instill pride in out country men about our own country.  How do we do it. It is easier said than done and is a long process.

A change is required in the mindset.

Soch badlo desh badlo (change the way you think and you make you can change the progress of your country). Text books are the best answer for this. There is a need to rewrite the textbooks  with stories of valour pride riches and bravery of Indian men and women alike to instill a sense of pride.
   
These stories when taught at a young age would make an   indelible impression on their minds. This change would take some time maybe a decade or two for these small children to grow up and arrive in responsible positions.  That's fine - what is   a decade or two in the progress of a Nation.

Truly, we must start respecting ourselves because if we don't respect ourselves,  no one else will and no one will ever consider us a super power(in the making or otherwise)

Look forward to a new future in a decade from now!!

Wednesday, 25 April 2018

ban lavish weddings to bachao betis

 
i saw the movie 'mistress of spices' yesterday. the spell binding heroine i.e aishwarya rai laments that her parents were not happy (in the movie) with the birth of a girl child as it means more 'dahej' or dowry.

that is the bottom line. people do not want girls - not because they dont like girls - in fact girls are more loved and loving than boys - the point is - with girls you are forever concerned about their safety and well being - safety from all the social ills prevalent now, where even 4 months olds are also not being spared - and well being from their husband & their family.  All this after paying a hefty dowry and phenomenal marriage expenses.

No amount of clamping down on sex determination centres, educating people about gender equality or lip service about dowry bans etc is going to help significantly increase the girl sex ratio.  people dont want girls becase of the costs and the mental worry involved.  if we can accept this fundamental fact of life then we can make things a lot better.

Therefore, to improve the ratio of girls in the country we need to bring down the costs of raising a girl child and marrying her off while also gauranteeing her safety and security with a good degree of certainity.

towards this, there are three things that could be readily done (i am sending a more detailed letter to ministry of women and child welfare for them to study these issues). they are

1. subsidise education
2. ensure safety and security both before and after marriage
3. reduce marriage expenses

as this post is about lavish weddings, i will restrict myself to the third point.  as we all know, marriage expenses comprise dowry, actual marriage expenses and post marriage gifts including the delivery expenses.

the actual marriage expenses comprise venue charges, decoration, travel &accommodation for guests and food expenses. 


on a very conservative estimate one dinner for 500 guests@1000 rupees costs about 5 lakhs in the cities. with exorbitant venue and accommodation charges typical marriage expenses in cities range between 15-20 lakhs.  couple this with conservative dowry of 5 lakhs and 5 lakhs travel expenses the total expenses may go upto 30-35 lakhs.  How does a common man cough out this kind of money? even if he does, it would be from his life time savings or he would be in a life time of debt after marriage.  now picture a guy having two or three girl children. his expenses can go upto a crore.

the easiest way to avoid this is to avoid having a girl child.  therefore someone trying to avoid a girl child is only the symptom - the disease is in the prevalent social norms.

while it may be very difficult to dictatorially clamp down on dowry as the transactions are secretive (as dowry anyway is banned) lavish weddings could be banned as the expenses are very clearly visual and their cost can be assessed. 

in this connection the diktat by the bohra muslim community elders in mumbai is the way forward - where they gave a diktat that there cannot be more than 4 dishes in a wedding and other rules to reduce the expenditure.  they also said that not only anyone who flouts these rules but also those attend the weddings that flout rules will be socially boycotted.  at first look this step looks very regressive but is actually a great step forward.


the govt may also consider binging a regualtion on the maximum expenditure on a wedding that can be done.  this will bring a lot of relief to millions of parents of girl children and will also be a step towards increasing the girl child ratio.  this may face a lot of criticism but these are the real ways for 'beti bachao' !!!!

and what you can do - if you are really progressive and concerned and a parent of a boy - even if you can't avoid dowry (for some reasons) atleast go for a simple marriage as that is one money  which does not go  either to the bride or  groom and significantly reduces the burden on the girl's parents.

Ranveer Singh banned by Bollywood?

In a disturbing turn of events, Ranveer Singh was banned in  Bollywood by an obscure organisation called FWICE.  That organisation is there ...